Robert

Racial or Ethnic Identification: Asian/Pacific Islander
Branch of Military:Army
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Robert was a military child, moving around a lot, and later joined at the age of 18, deploying within the same year. He has three brothers that were in other branches, his father served in Vietnam, and grandfather in WWII. Robert served on active Army duty and was deployed to the Gulf War as tank crewman. During his deployment he began to experience gastric symptoms with intermittent flares that continued after the war. He also felt bloating, fatigue, and insomnia while in the Gulf, he believes due to stressors put on the body. But after returning home, his symptoms did not subside. He began having panic attacks, flashbacks, and nightmares. He also became diagnosed with diabetes in 2006.
After returning home from the war, he took a couple years to himself and then returned to school. He was a probation officer for the juvenile system and then a trucker for 10 years. He never married but has one daughter. When his daughter’s mother died from alcoholism when his daughter was 13, he stopped trucking and focused on raising her, accepting a position at a Vet Center to continue helping other Veterans find resources and assistance. When it was time for her to go to college, Robert decided to join her and lived in the dorms, completing a four-year college with the assistance from the Vocational Rehabilitation program provided from the VA.
Robert had many struggles with substance abuse and has a hard time connecting with other people. He has attempted to utilize Veteran resources such as the vocational rehabilitation program and counseling and describes having positive VA experiences. He said his daughter has been the biggest help of all. He has attempted to feel better by following diets (such as Paleo), spiritual meditation, yoga, and watersports.
He would like his fellow Veterans to understand that they are not alone, and it is never too late to reflect and think about your time in service. He feels that there should be more outreach programs as people exit the service and requests that the political hurdles are removed so people do not feel discouraged and can find the VA, advocate for it, and utilize their services.